|4/26/2014 8:26:00 AM|
Marriage facing 'vocation crisis' says bishop
Ordination to the Episcopate
Auxiliary Bishop Peter Smith
2 p.m., April 29
St. Mary Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception
The new auxiliary bishop of Portland says marriage and family life are facing a "big vocations crisis."
Bishop Peter Smith, a canon lawyer tasked with investigating if troubled marriages really were marriages after all, says the sacrament has been reduced far beyond what Christ intended it to be, and that culture constantly reinforces the reduction.
"Our culture has a strong narcissistic trend in it and this militates against good marriages and family life," Bishop Smith says. "When we are self absorbed and relate to the world around us primarily with self projection, then it becomes very difficult to live marriage and family life well. By their nature, marriage and family demand giving of ourselves and serving others, making sacrifices and forbearing. In other words, real love."
He says people are not socialized in how to make relationships work well. Many don't know how to deal with conflict, fully share their lives, work through tough times together and share what they have so everyone benefits.
As a member of the People of Praise, a Christian community that includes many families, the new bishop sees two things that are essential for strong marriages and family life: First, that people live in Christ, "with real faith that is life giving and transforming." Second, that couples and families live intentionally, making conscious choices and sustaining an ongoing commitment.
"If these aren’t part of marriages and family life, the pressures of the world will squeeze them into a different mold, one that often doesn’t have good results," Bishop Smith says. "One of the biggest witnesses Christians can give the world around us is how to live marriage and family life well. And it will often be quite a contrast to what is happening around us."
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